How to Find a Culturally Competent Therapist Hint: Don't give up. The right therapist for you is out there. Mark Zuckerberg made “move fast and break things” his mantra. Mine has always been “Move fast and fix things.” A child fighting on a subway. I would step in to break it up. If someone’s car broke down, I would ask if they needed to make a call. If someone in my family or a neighbor needed money, if I had it, I gave it. I witnessed violence when I was growing up. And I was the oldest of...